My name is Kai. I’m a writer and educator on all things sexual healing thru pleasure. My work centers consent based education that is shame free, LGBTQ prioritized, healing centric, and pleasure inclusive. As a sexual assault and domestic violence ER advocate, I have worked to center the healing of people who have experienced harm for close to a decade. I believe that we all need healing in our sexual being — and I want to help you get there.
I have been invited to speak at establishments like HealHaus, Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, BUST Magazine, Lehman College, Iona College, Free University NYC, North Rockland High School, Hudson Valley LGBTQ Community Center, and more. I provide lectures, panels, workshops, and keynotes on: queer representation, sexual wellness, gender, pleasure, healing from trauma, and relationship dynamics. To bring me to your campus or company, please fill out the form below.
These guided 1-on-1 sessions are for folx who are wanting to work thru their sexual healing, embrace their own intimacy, and reclaim all that makes them sensual. Within these sessions, we’ll delve into your sexual journey towards a set of personalized goals thru intentional questions, assignments, resources, and support. These sessions are guided by my expertise as a certified sex educator, anti-sexual violence advocate, and Reiki energy worker.
I provide consent based consulting services for businesses looking to ensure they have a safe(r) workplace that is free from sexual harassment. This work is available to any brand, business, or non-profit looking to center a holistic and healthy work environment. I also work with brands on LGBTQ advertising and inclusivity training. We work together to make sure that your message is clear and concise, not simply taping a rainbow over your logo for Pride month.
— Workshop participant