Pleasure centered healing for your sexual being. I am a practitioner in the art of holding space + a curator of safe(r) containers for healing.

Photo by Clare P. Worsley

Photo by Clare P. Worsley



I believe in transforming learning spaces — my workshops are a space of exploration. My approach to sex education is holistic in that I use worksheets, interactive demonstrations, journaling prompts, collective dialogue, and research to guide you towards better understanding your sexuality. I believe in consent as a liberatory force and want to invite you to grow beyond simply viewing consent as a yes or no question. Learn more about my workshop offerings.


“Kai professionally and confidently facilitates on topics not easily discussed publicly.”

— workshop participant


Sexual Wellness Coaching

These guided 1:1 video sessions are for people who are wanting to work thru their sexual healing, embrace their own intimacy, and reclaim all that makes them sensual. Within these sessions, we’ll delve into your sexual journey towards a set of personalized goals thru intentional questions, assignments, resources, and support. These sessions are guided by my expertise as a certified sex educator, anti-sexual violence advocate, and Reiki energy worker. Learn more about these sessions.